(ProsperNews.net) – Elizabeth Stuart North, affectionately known as “Betsy,” passed away peacefully on November 16, 2024, just three days after celebrating her 56th wedding anniversary with Ret. Marine Lt. Col. Oliver North. She was 80 years old.
Betsy was born in Somerset, Pennsylvania, to James Roy Stuart and Frances Lesesne Dornin and was raised on the family farm alongside her two older sisters, Sally Hunt Stuart and Tait Stuart Livingood, who predeceased her.
After graduating from Somerset County High School in 1963, Betsy attended Longwood College in Virginia and later earned her degree from Pennsylvania State University in 1967. She began her career at the Hecht Company in Maryland, where her natural leadership skills led to her role as a retail sales manager.
It was during this time that a chance blind date, set up by a coworker, introduced Betsy to Midshipman Oliver North, a soon-to-be Marine officer completing his studies at the U.S. Naval Academy. The two fell in love, and on June 6, 1968, Betsy pinned Second Lieutenant bars on his shoulders. They married on November 13, 1968, at the Marine Memorial Chapel in Quantico, Virginia.
Their honeymoon was cut short by Oliver’s deployment to Vietnam. Betsy, determined and resourceful, helped “team-drive” cross-country to California so he could meet his orders. It was a testament to the partnership and strength that would define their marriage.
Over the next thirteen years, Betsy gave birth to four children—Elizabeth Tait, Stuart, Sarah, and Dornin—while navigating the challenges of military life. The family moved eight times, often into temporary housing, and Betsy took on the roles of caretaker, teacher, and coach. She ensured her children had strong educational foundations, whether through homeschooling, private Christian institutions, or public schools.
Betsy’s strength was never more evident than during her family’s most public challenge: the Iran-Contra hearings in the late 1980s, when Oliver North became a central figure. Betsy’s steadfast support anchored her family through the turbulence.
After settling at Narnia Farm in Clarke County, Virginia, Betsy created a loving home surrounded by nature, cattle, and horses. An accomplished equestrienne, she passed on her love of riding to her daughters and inspired her son in sports.
In 2021, Betsy faced her final battle with Corticobasal Syndrome. With courage and unshakable faith, she endured her illness, supported by her devoted family, caregivers, and hospice staff.
Betsy leaves behind a remarkable legacy of love, faith, and resilience. She is survived by her husband, Oliver, their four children, eighteen grandchildren, and one great-grandchild.
A funeral service will be held on December 21, 2024, at Trinity Episcopal Church in Upperville, Virginia, at 11:00 a.m. In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations be made to Blue Ridge Hospice, Freedom Alliance, or the Church of Our Saviour, Oatlands.
Betsy’s life was one of quiet strength, unwavering faith, and deep devotion to her family—a reflection of Proverbs 31:10: “A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies.”
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